words to my dear juniors

I'm actually quite busy lol, but I feel that I can't ignore what is going on.
Maybe I'm not qualified to say anything or to step into your matters,I may not even know the whole story, but based on what I read and the bits and pieces I assembled myself, I just hope the tension between you people will be dissolved soon :)
Life's too short.

Well, life is a very weird thing actually.
It gives you so much happiness and yet so much pain.
But to ease the pain, the key is to COPE.. properly.
You see, in life, we don't always get what we want.
We can't please everybody, and we can't expect everyone to please us.
You can try, but if it's too much burden or if the efforts are 'under-preciated',
pack up and leave.
We need people who can accept us as who we are, not who we show others.

Self-reflection is important.
Too less of it, may make you arrogant, oblivious even.
Self-worth is important.
Yet, too much of it may make you egotistic.
Having a stand on your belief is important.
But respecting other people's point of view is equally important.
Learn to accept things, or if you must change something, take baby steps.
What I've learnt in life is that rushing things thru usually ends up in back fire.

As for the 'criticisms', advises in those forms are the most hurtful yet the most powerful.
They can change a person. But the person receiving it must be open about it.
You see, some ppl don't even give a damn about others, others give too much.
So in the end of the day, it'll still be you to judge.
To reflect, to evaluate the truth in such comments.
To decide, whether it is for the better to change.

To the one who gives such 'criticisms',
remember to be kind in your words and gestures as well.
No matter what happens, always know that the human heart is fragile.
Everyone has dignity and ego & it's cruel to bruise it.

Just to clarify, I'm not taking sides or whatever.
Just wanted to say what's on my mind,
hopefully this msj reach you guys in a calm and harmonious manner :)

Friendship is a precious thing in life.
Especially those made in High School...
You guys will understand it one day, soon perhaps :)

For the record, I'm quite glad you guys chose to blog about your thoughts.
Truth be told, I did the same thing with my dear friend last time.
We posted our feelings and views and finally confronted each other.
Reconciliation.
Both of us changed in the end :)
we grew more mature in our thinking and
we learnt the value of understanding and tolerance.